IB/cm: Call the correct message free functions in cm_send_handler()

IB/cm: Call the correct message free functions in cm_send_handler()

There are now three destroy functions for the cm_msg, and all places
except the general send completion handler use the correct function.

Fix cm_send_handler() to detect which kind of message is being completed
and destroy it using the correct function with the correct locking.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/62a507195b8db85bb11228d0c6e7fa944204bf12.1622629024.git.leonro@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>