RDMA: Add EFA related definitions

Add EFA driver ID to the IOCTL interface uapi. This patch also adds
unspecified node/transport type that will be used by EFA (usnic is left
unchanged as it's already part of our ABI).

Signed-off-by: Gal Pressman <galpress@amazon.com>
Reviewed-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Reviewed-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>