bcachefs: Btree key cache improvements

bcachefs: Btree key cache improvements

 - In userspace, we don't have real percpu variables; this patch
   disables the percpu freelists in userspace
 - add some error messages for the asserts in
   bch2_fs_btree_key_cache_exit(); we've been hitting this (only in
   userspace, oddly), perhaps this will help us track down the error.
 - bkey_cached_reuse() should likely be taking the key cache lock, and
   it's a slowpath so it doesn't hurt to

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>