bpf: Ensure unit_size is matched with slab cache object size

bpf: Ensure unit_size is matched with slab cache object size

Add extra check in bpf_mem_alloc_init() to ensure the unit_size of
bpf_mem_cache is matched with the object_size of underlying slab cache.
If these two sizes are unmatched, print a warning once and return
-EINVAL in bpf_mem_alloc_init(), so the mismatch can be found early and
the potential issue can be prevented.

Suggested-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Hou Tao <houtao1@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230908133923.2675053-4-houtao@huaweicloud.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>