bcachefs: Fix deadlock on nocow locks in data move path

bcachefs: Fix deadlock on nocow locks in data move path

The recent nocow locking rework introduced a deadlock in the data move
path: the new nocow locking scheme uses a hash table with a fixed size
array for chaining, meaning on hash collision we may have to wait for
other locks to be released before we can lock a bucket.

And since the data move path needs to submit writes from the same thread
that's taking nocow locks and submitting reads, this introduces a
deadlock.

This shouldn't happen often in practice, but since the data move path
can keep large numbers of IOs in flight simultaneously, it's something
we have to handle.

This patch makes move_ctxt_wait_event() available to
bch2_data_update_init() and uses it when appropriate, which is our
normal solution to this kind of thing.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>