PCI: hotplug: Allow marking devices as disconnected during bind/unbind

PCI: hotplug: Allow marking devices as disconnected during bind/unbind

On surprise removal, pciehp_unconfigure_device() and acpiphp's
trim_stale_devices() call pci_dev_set_disconnected() to mark removed
devices as permanently offline.  Thereby, the PCI core and drivers know
to skip device accesses.

However pci_dev_set_disconnected() takes the device_lock and thus waits for
a concurrent driver bind or unbind to complete.  As a result, the driver's
->probe and ->remove hooks have no chance to learn that the device is gone.

That doesn't make any sense, so drop the device_lock and instead use atomic
xchg() and cmpxchg() operations to update the device state.

As a byproduct, an AB-BA deadlock reported by Anatoli is fixed which occurs
on surprise removal with AER concurrently performing a bus reset.

AER bus reset:

  INFO: task irq/26-aerdrv:95 blocked for more than 120 seconds.
  Tainted: G        W          6.2.0-rc3-custom-norework-jan11+
  schedule
  rwsem_down_write_slowpath
  down_write_nested
  pciehp_reset_slot                      # acquires reset_lock
  pci_reset_hotplug_slot
  pci_slot_reset                         # acquires device_lock
  pci_bus_error_reset
  aer_root_reset
  pcie_do_recovery
  aer_process_err_devices
  aer_isr

pciehp surprise removal:

  INFO: task irq/26-pciehp:96 blocked for more than 120 seconds.
  Tainted: G        W          6.2.0-rc3-custom-norework-jan11+
  schedule_preempt_disabled
  __mutex_lock
  mutex_lock_nested
  pci_dev_set_disconnected               # acquires device_lock
  pci_walk_bus
  pciehp_unconfigure_device
  pciehp_disable_slot
  pciehp_handle_presence_or_link_change
  pciehp_ist                             # acquires reset_lock

Link: https://bugzilla.kernel.org/show_bug.cgi?id=215590
Fixes: a6bd101b8f84 ("PCI: Unify device inaccessible")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/3dc88ea82bdc0e37d9000e413d5ebce481cbd629.1674205689.git.lukas@wunner.de
Reported-by: Anatoli Antonovitch <anatoli.antonovitch@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Lukas Wunner <lukas@wunner.de>
Signed-off-by: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v4.20+
Cc: Keith Busch <kbusch@kernel.org>