mptcp: consolidate in_opt sub-options fields in a bitmask

mptcp: consolidate in_opt sub-options fields in a bitmask

This makes input options processing more consistent with
output ones and will simplify the next patch.

Also avoid clearing the suboption field after processing
it, since it's not needed.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>