usb: xhci: Implement xhci_handshake_check_state() helper

usb: xhci: Implement xhci_handshake_check_state() helper

In some situations where xhci removal happens parallel to xhci_handshake,
we encounter a scenario where the xhci_handshake can't succeed, and it
polls until timeout.

If xhci_handshake runs until timeout it can on some platforms result in
a long wait which might lead to a watchdog timeout.

Add a helper that checks xhci status during the handshake, and exits if
set state is entered. Use this helper in places where xhci_handshake is
called unlocked and has a long timeout. For example  xhci command timeout
and xhci reset.

[commit message and code comment rewording -Mathias]

Signed-off-by: Udipto Goswami <quic_ugoswami@quicinc.com>
Signed-off-by: Mathias Nyman <mathias.nyman@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231019102924.2797346-18-mathias.nyman@linux.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>