bcachefs: Kill BTREE_ITER_SET_POS_AFTER_COMMIT

bcachefs: Kill BTREE_ITER_SET_POS_AFTER_COMMIT

BTREE_ITER_SET_POS_AFTER_COMMIT is used internally to automagically
advance extent btree iterators on sucessful commit.

But with the upcomnig btree_path patch it's getting more awkward to
support, and it adds overhead to core data structures that's only used
in a few places, and can be easily done by the caller instead.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>