bcachefs: Fix race in bch2_write_super()

bcachefs: Fix race in bch2_write_super()

bch2_write_super() was looping over online devices multiple times -
dropping and retaking io_ref each time.

This meant it could race with device removal; it could increment the
sequence number on a device but fail to write it - and then if the
device was re-added, it would get confused the next time around thinking
a superblock write was silently dropped.

Fix this by taking io_ref once, and stashing pointers to online devices
in a darray.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>