fork: stop ignoring NUMA while handling cached thread stacks

fork: stop ignoring NUMA while handling cached thread stacks

1. the numa parameter was straight up ignored.
2. nothing was done to check if the to-be-cached/allocated stack matches
   the local node

The id remains ignored on free in case of memoryless nodes.

Note the current caching is already bad as the cache keeps overflowing
and a different solution is needed for the long run, to be worked
out(tm).

Stats collected over a kernel build with the patch with the following
topology:
  NUMA node(s):              2
  NUMA node0 CPU(s):         0-11
  NUMA node1 CPU(s):         12-23

caller's node vs stack backing pages on free:
matching:	50083 (70%)
mismatched:	21492 (30%)

caching efficiency:
cached:		32651 (65.2%)
dropped:	17432 (34.8%)

Link: https://lkml.kernel.org/r/20251120054015.3019419-1-mjguzik@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Mateusz Guzik <mjguzik@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Linus Walleij <linus.walleij@linaro.org>
Cc: Liam Howlett <liam.howlett@oracle.com>
Cc: Linus Waleij <linus.walleij@linaro.org>
Cc: Lorenzo Stoakes <lorenzo.stoakes@oracle.com>
Cc: Pasha Tatashin <pasha.tatashin@soleen.com>
Cc: Kees Cook <kees@kernel.org>
Cc: Oleg Nesterov <oleg@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>