uprobes: Add do_ref_ctr argument to uprobe_write function

uprobes: Add do_ref_ctr argument to uprobe_write function

Making update_ref_ctr call in uprobe_write conditional based
on do_ref_ctr argument. This way we can use uprobe_write for
instruction update without doing ref_ctr_offset update.

Signed-off-by: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Masami Hiramatsu (Google) <mhiramat@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Oleg Nesterov <oleg@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250720112133.244369-8-jolsa@kernel.org