ipvs: add totalconns for dest

ipvs: add totalconns for dest

Replace the inactconns dest counter with totalconns, now
inactconns can be obtained from totalconns - activeconns.
This reduces the atomic inc/dec ops for TCP/SCTP from
6 to 4 if the connection is established and then closed.

Fixes: 1da177e4c3f4 ("Linux-2.6.12-rc2")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Signed-off-by: Yizhou Zhao <zhaoyz24@mails.tsinghua.edu.cn>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>